Even if you find a date that matches all your desired qualities and characteristics you could find disappointment if dating styles aren’t a match. There are several different types of dating styles – Passionate starts, Steady as you go, Slow move-makers, and Serial Daters.
1. Passionate starts – Jumping into passionate relationships before truly getting to know someone feels good and thrilling. Yes, you think you found the one – your soul mate. When the passion begins to fizzle you find you’re not really all that interested, or their not interested in you. Although a few lucky ones found success, passion is only one quality that characterizes a winning relationship.
2. Steady as your go – Getting to know each other, before jumping into a relationship is always suggested, especially if you want something real. Taking your time in a relationship lets the other person know they are worth the time and the effort.
3. Slow move-makers – Getting to know each other is fine, but if you don’t make move soon you’re relegated to “friend” status. If you’re looking for passion in relationships, learn the skills to make it happen. But if you are more comfortable with platonic type relationships, you may seek to find someone who is a similar match.
4. Serial Daters – Some people (men and women) like to date. We may come across that great person that we want a relationship. These people do not want relationships and no matter how good we are, how good we are to them – we will not change their ways.
Before even considering going on a date, you have to know your dating style and what makes you comfortable. If you’re a serial dater, you’re not going to find success with someone who is a steady as you go type. And no doubt, those like passionate start will find great frustration with a slow move-maker. And remember you can’t change people; you can only change your reaction to them.
1. Passionate starts – Jumping into passionate relationships before truly getting to know someone feels good and thrilling. Yes, you think you found the one – your soul mate. When the passion begins to fizzle you find you’re not really all that interested, or their not interested in you. Although a few lucky ones found success, passion is only one quality that characterizes a winning relationship.
2. Steady as your go – Getting to know each other, before jumping into a relationship is always suggested, especially if you want something real. Taking your time in a relationship lets the other person know they are worth the time and the effort.
3. Slow move-makers – Getting to know each other is fine, but if you don’t make move soon you’re relegated to “friend” status. If you’re looking for passion in relationships, learn the skills to make it happen. But if you are more comfortable with platonic type relationships, you may seek to find someone who is a similar match.
4. Serial Daters – Some people (men and women) like to date. We may come across that great person that we want a relationship. These people do not want relationships and no matter how good we are, how good we are to them – we will not change their ways.
Before even considering going on a date, you have to know your dating style and what makes you comfortable. If you’re a serial dater, you’re not going to find success with someone who is a steady as you go type. And no doubt, those like passionate start will find great frustration with a slow move-maker. And remember you can’t change people; you can only change your reaction to them.